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How to Spot Truly Toxic Behavior (And What to Do About It)
Trauma Therapy, Relationships & Boundaries, Emotionally Immature & Toxic Behavior Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 8/14/25 Trauma Therapy, Relationships & Boundaries, Emotionally Immature & Toxic Behavior Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 8/14/25

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If you’ve ever felt confused, guilty, or emotionally drained around someone close to you - this blog breaks down the real signs of toxic behavior.

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Setting boundaries can feel overwhelming and guilt inducing, especially if you are used to putting others first. In this blog, you’ll learn about what boundaries are and 7 practical tips to help you set, communicate, and maintain healthier boundaries - without guilt or second guessing.

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Every year I give some reminders that the holidays can be quite overhelming and stressful! So much pressure to feel jolly and grateful, lots of plan, extra family time, highlighting of where you feel you were “supposed to be.”
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ESP for p Here are some small tangible ways to give yourself a little kindness 💕 esp around holidays and seasonal changes - be good to yourself!!! You deserve it #selfcompassion #therapistsofinstagram #selflove Resentment is often the last line of defense after we’ve over-given, over-functioned, or ignored our own needs.⁣
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It’s not a failure - it’s information.⁣
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It’s a signal to come back to yourself.⁣
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Same with bitterness, simm Inner child work is about giving yourself the validation, compassion, and needs you didn’t get growing up.⁣
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It’s also about permission to be a kid again and play and just have fun!⁣
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Here are some mantras if you’re doing this typ Avoidant attachment isn’t just being “distant” or even “cold.” ⁣
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It’s a nervous system going, “Closeness feels good… but also too much and too overwhelming.”⁣
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You can care deeply about someon When your body hasn’t learned what safety feels like, even healthy relationships can feel overwhelming.⁣
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Your anxiety doesn’t mean something is wrong - it means something old is being activated. ⁣
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You fear rejection, abandonment, and
Sometimes what looks or even feels like calm is actually self-protection.⁣
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Hyper-vigilance, control, or emotional numbing can all be ways your nervous system tries to keep you safe!⁣
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But internal safety comes from connection  from being grounded When your nervous system is on alert, you start scanning for danger in people instead of the present moment. ⁣
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You read tone shifts, facial expressions, and silence like survival cues - not just information. You make meaning and create assumptions

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